How I help

I work with adults individually and with couples.

Below you’ll find the areas people most often come to me with. Whatever brings you here, we start by understanding your situation, without judgement and without pressure.

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01

Substance and behavioural addictions

One addiction often goes hand in hand with another. First we work on stopping the compulsion and preventing relapse, then on whatever the addiction has been drowning out for years.

  • alcohol, cannabis, stimulants, medication
  • gambling and stock trading
  • video games and phone use
  • compulsive sexual behaviour
  • shopping, work, excessive exercise

02

Codependency: partners and family of people with addiction

When your life has long revolved around someone else’s drinking or gambling, it’s easy to stop noticing yourself. I help you reclaim your own emotions, needs and decisions, whatever your partner does.

  • constant vigilance and control
  • shame, guilt, hiding the problem
  • difficulty setting boundaries
  • feeling that you are losing yourself

03

Couples in crisis after infidelity

Discovering infidelity is one of the most painful moments in a relationship. I create a space where both partners can be heard.

  • getting through the most acute stage of the crisis
  • understanding what led to the affair
  • a conscious decision: rebuilding trust, or separating with as little damage as possible

04

Anxiety, trauma and psychosomatic symptoms

When emotions take over, or show up in your body. In this work I combine ISTDP psychotherapy with Somatic Experiencing.

  • anxiety and constant tension
  • pain without a clear medical cause
  • recurring relationship difficulties
  • the after-effects of difficult experiences

Where to start?

The first step is a 50-minute consultation, where we decide together which form of support will suit you best. You’ll find fees for all forms of support on the fees page.